Correcting bad upbringing

STOP BREEDING A GENERATION THAT IS TOO DEPENDENT !!

AVOID RAISING A GENERATION THAT CAN'T DO THINGS ON THEIR OWN !!

MISTAKES TO AVOID:

1. Preparing their meals so they can read and enjoy them: Teach them how to cook and how to multitask from a tender age.

2. Doing their laundry. Teach them the importance of cleanliness: Let them do laundry and organize the room themselves even while preparing for exams.

3. Spoiling them by always driving them to school: At a certain age, children should find their way to school themselves.

4. Lying to the authorities on their behalf: To get them out of trouble, don't lie on their behalf. You should be an example

5. Temptation to organize expo: To assist your wards in passing their tests, you organize an "expo", please don't do that !

6. Being overprotective: You keep them safe from all threats and challenges. How do they face life, supposing you die?

7. Overprotection: You spare them from every misery and pain.

8. Overprotection: You don't want them to go through what you did as a youngster. Teach them morals and righteousness, allow them to live.

9. Being too loose in Discipline: You scurry about as they watch movies and play video games.

10. Being Overprotective: They are unable to go out alone since they are constantly afraid.

11. Being Overprotective: Because you are wiser than them, you make all of their decisions. Give advise and allow them to choose and make mistakes and learn from the experiences.

12. Being Overprotective: You visit their schools to defend and uphold their legal rights.

13. Breaking your principles: You stand up for them even when they are at fault and in the wrong.

14. Being too emotional: You simply cannot bear to see them suffer from hunger or starvation.

15. Showing pride and arrogance: You resist correctors who attempt to correct them.

If after reading this, you don't make good use of this information, "I FEEL FOR YOU"

You will occupied raising an excessively dependent generation.

Do you believe you are demonstrating love to them by setting poor standards?

Don't be mistaken!

They will become powerless after you are gone and they encounter difficulties in real life.

When they discover the damage, you have caused them, they will curse you.

Stop creating an excessively dependent generation!

Give these kids a chance to experience life's reality!

Be cautious!!!

1. Give your kids age-appropriate household responsibilities, even if you have a thousand and one domestic helpers at home. To believe that doing everything for your children is a sign of honor or a method to pass down royalty to them is blatant ignorance.

2. Teach children to be helpful and create a positive influence wherever they are - in the classroom, the place of worship, someone else's house, etc.

3. Encourage your kids to constantly make a positive impression wherever they go by modeling manners, respect, friendliness, joy, and helpfulness for them.

4. Teach children proper bathroom etiquette. They should know how to keep the toilet clean for the next user, and they should be made aware that it is improper to leave the bathroom's walls or floor covered in soap, foam, or any other kind of debris after taking a shower.

5. Instill in your kids the value of protecting their environment and their bodies, whether they are at home or elsewhere. Remind them that responsible adults never wake up to an unmade bed or messy rooms; instead, teach them to take thorough showers and maintain a fresh-smelling appearance at all times. It is intolerable to be around young people who have bad breath; let them take care of their teeth, hair, nails, and other personal hygiene needs.

6. Teach your kids how to properly store their worn clothing and other personal items, whether they are in their houses or not. It might be annoying to have soiled clothes or shoes lying around the house, especially if they belong to a guest.

7. Allow them to pack their items before departing. The provision of basic items like soap, cream, toothbrushes, and other necessities shouldn't be left up to your kids' hosts.

8. Encourage your kids to always dress nicely, especially when they're visiting another household. In your home, you presumably permit your daughters to wear bum shots and your guys to wander about with their chests bare, but if they do so elsewhere, they might not be safe. You might not be able to predict where a predator would wait for a child.

9. Teach children appropriate table manners, not just the ones you learn from nursery rhymes. Teach children the proper oral hygiene techniques, such as covering their mouths as they chew, not talking with their mouths full, and more.

10. Explain to your kids that washing simply their plates after meals is not a good practice.

11. Remind your children that it's impolite to join in on a conversation when an adult is speaking. Encourage this outside of your home as well.

12. Encourage your kids to avoid acting antisocially in real life and online. More so than they do with the imaginary people they meet online, they ought to connect well with those around them. Encouragement of young people locking themselves in their rooms for extended periods while they are on the phone should be discouraged.

13. Give your kids the tools they need to carry out your family's ideals wherever they go. However, before that, make sure your family's ideals are respectable, empowering, and ethically and socially advantageous.

14. Instill in your kids the ability to restrain their appetite and decline offers, especially when they come from someone they know. Additionally, kids are not required to taste anything they observe someone else eating at home. They will be able to look away from specific items while they are at other people's houses thanks to this.

15. Remind your kids often that they are the lens through which the rest of the world views you. The general opinion is that if your kids behave badly outside, you need to train them at home. You failed as a parent because children are not designed to provide for themselves when it comes to home education.

16. Lastly, make sure your kids are aware of God. Salvation is not inherited; being holy or having a strong spiritual life does not ensure that your offspring will be saved. You must actively and purposefully direct people toward God.

Let's do our best as parents to ensure that these kids reflect us well. You will undoubtedly feel proud of yourself if you visit your kids' school and you are recognized as the parent of the student with the best manners. Will you?

Make sure that having you and/or your children around always makes your hosts and the hosts of your children happy.